Your first stop for entertaining and informative videos from my journey to the far corners of the sexual world.

The video that started it all. My online confession of my life as a sex addict. I'm giving up the double life and living free through transparency.

Childhood trauma isn't something you just get over as you grow up. Pediatrician Nadine Burke Harris explains that the repeated stress of abuse, neglect and parents struggling with mental health or substance abuse issues has real, tangible effects on the development of the brain.
-This is one of the most important videos I've seen yet. This message is crucial.

I can personally attest to the negative consequences of excessive internet pornography as well as the amazing benefits that come from dropping it all together. This talk breaks down the science more clearly (and enjoyably) than anything else I've found yet. If you watch porn, have a partner who watches or have kids of any ages, I highly recommend this video.

-If only we could all express our Adverse Childhood Experiences this clearly! Oh Key and Peele, you get me every time!
Adult Language

This is a fantastic message that spoke directly to my heart. It's amazing how much power comes from accepting and telling your story and how much pain comes from ignoring and hiding it.

Sex education varies widely between school districts, leaving many teens without comprehensive information. We made a video that covers what some schools are too embarrassed to teach.
-This video is kind of long but sooooooo worth it! 

What really causes addiction - to everything from cocaine to smart-phones? And how can we overcome it? Johann Hari has seen our current methods fail firsthand, as he has watched loved ones struggle to manage their addictions. He started to wonder why we treat addicts the way we do - and if there might be a better way.

- This is a great documentary that looks at how we treat addicts and those in recovery in this country. It focuses mainly on those who use substances, but it has a great message for all of us.

"Bonk" author Mary Roach delves into obscure scientific research, some of it centuries old, to make 10 surprising claims about sexual climax, ranging from the bizarre to the hilarious. (This talk is aimed at adults. Viewer discretion advised.)

A much needed message presented in a unique way. Go on Grandma, get down with your bad self!

Penis size and Suicide. Not two topics that normally go together. This is Healthcare Triage News. How big is the average penis?
-Their books are really great. I highly recommend them!

-I'm still not sure how I feel about the whole God thing, but this is a good message on beauty and boundaries, one that could have done me a lot of good years ago. An interesting talk from an unexpected source.

Benya's thought-provoking talk asks the audience to examine the definition of love that is given by the media. She challenges this romanticized view of passionate love and offers another more meaningful and lasting concept for others to ponder.

- I found the solution to sorry world of "modern dating". All I need to do is start dating 80 year old men. Problem solved!

Parents talk to their kids about sex for the first time.

-Hilarious and very informative video!

Powerful documentary featuring renowned experts in the field of childhood trauma, and attachment and bonding looks at this new understanding of how trauma effects the development of the mind body system, and how it affects children's behaviors and social relationships.

Canadian physician Gabor Maté is a specialist in terminal illnesses, chemical dependents, and HIV positive patients. Dr. Maté is a renowned author of books and columnist known for his knowledge about attention deficit disorder, stress, chronic illness and parental relations. His theme at TEDxRio+20 was addiction -- from drugs to power.

- College Humor takes on a classic fairy tale and gives it a modern day twist. If this is the view from today's "dating" landscape, I think I'll just stay home hahaha!

- I need to know! I don't care what the source is. Good advice is good advice.

The belief that human beings -- throughout their lives -- deserve to have access to accurate information about their bodies and sexuality drives much of Debby Herbenick's work. Among her greatest passions is translating sexual science to the general public through teaching, books, columns, podcasts, television, social media, blogging, crafting, public art, and her latest project: Make Sex Normal.

- Dr. Jamie Marich offers a new look at trauma and how we can work together to heal it. Such an inspirational woman!

Mel Robbins is a married working mother of three, an ivy-educated criminal lawyer, and one of the top career and relationship experts in America. Widely respected for her grab-'em-by-the-collar advice and tough love, Robbins drills through the mental clutter that stands between people and what they want.