Sex is… perfectly natural. It’s something that’s pleasurable. It’s enjoyable and it enhances a relationship. So why don’t we learn as much as we can about it and become comfortable with ourselves as sexual human beings because we are all sexual?
— Sue Johanson

Hi, I'm Jace, and I'm a sex addict. As my months of sexual sobriety have begun adding up in recovery, I discovered buried emotional issues weren’t the only thing I wasn’t aware of. I have spent my entire sexual life as an addict and now have little to no understanding of sexual health, acceptable relationships or how other people function in the world. This awakening was surprising and frightening to me. I stopped having sex and started learning about it.
 I became suddenly celibate.
In an effort to make up for lost time, I have set out on an exciting quest for knowledge and understanding.

I am not a doctor or psychologist and can offer no expertise of my own. What I can do is provide all of the information I track down on my journey into the elusive world of healthy sexuality.
This website will act as the nerve center for the discoveries I make, mysteries I solve and answers I receive.
There is no subject too strange, no question too foolish and no distance too far. I have embarked on a great adventure. I hope you'll join me!

Fellow addicts, keep an eye out for TRIGGER ALERTS! They are marked on any content throughout the site that is clearly dangerous. I may miss something that is specifically triggering to you, but I’ll do my best to tag anything that would potentially trigger any of the addicts I’ve met. Please partake in this journey at your own discretion.
— Jace


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